Eshu and the Two Friends

The Best of Friends

There were once two farmers who were the best of friends. They had been inseparable since childhood. Their farms lay side by side, with only a small path dividing their properties. Each day they would wave to each other across the path as they worked. Each evening they would share their meals and their stories.

The two friends boasted of their friendship everywhere they went. 'Nothing could ever come between us,' they would say. 'Our bond is unbreakable.'

Eshu, the trickster Orisha, heard these boasts and smiled his knowing smile. He decided to test whether their friendship was as strong as they claimed.

The Two-Colored Hat

Eshu fashioned a hat of a most peculiar design. One side was bright red, the color of fire and passion. The other side was deep black, the color of night and mystery. He placed this hat upon his head and set out to walk down the path between the two farms.

As Eshu strolled down the path, both friends looked up from their work to see who was passing.

The farmer on the left side of the path saw a stranger in a striking red hat. The farmer on the right side of the path saw a stranger in a mysterious black hat. Neither could see the other side.

Eshu walked slowly, greeting each farmer with a wave, then continued on his way until he was out of sight.

The Argument

That evening, the two friends met as always to share their meal. The conversation soon turned to the stranger who had passed by that day.

'Did you see the man in the red hat?' asked the first farmer. 'What a bold color!'

'Red hat?' replied the second farmer. 'The man was wearing a black hat.'

'No, no, it was definitely red. I have eyes, don't I?'

'As do I, and I tell you the hat was black!'

What began as friendly disagreement quickly escalated. Each man was certain of what he had seen. Each accused the other of being blind, then of being a liar. Their voices rose to shouts.

'How can we be friends if you lie to my face?' demanded one.

'I am not lying! You are trying to make me look foolish!' retorted the other.

Their lifelong friendship dissolved in minutes. They parted in anger, vowing never to speak to each other again.

Eshu's Return

The next day, as the two former friends worked their fields in bitter silence, Eshu came strolling down the path again. But this time he walked in the other direction, and this time each farmer saw the opposite color.

The first farmer, who had seen red before, now saw black.

The second farmer, who had seen black before, now saw red.

Both men were confused. They looked at each other across the path. For the first time, doubt crept in.

Eshu stopped in the middle of the path and removed his hat, revealing both colors to both men.

'You see?' Eshu said, laughing. 'You were both right. And you were both wrong. The hat has two colors, and each of you could only see one. You destroyed your friendship over something that was true from both perspectives.'

The Lesson

The two farmers were ashamed. They begged each other's forgiveness and renewed their friendship, wiser than before. They had learned Eshu's lesson: that truth can look different from different perspectives, and that assuming your view is the only view leads to destruction.

'Remember,' Eshu said before he departed, 'the crossroads I guard is not just where two paths meet. It is where two truths meet. The wise person understands that both paths are real.'

Eshu's Teaching

This story is told throughout Yorubaland and the diaspora as a warning against the arrogance of certainty. It teaches that Eshu's tricks are not merely mischief but profound lessons about the nature of reality.

When we are certain that our perspective is the only truth, we risk losing everything that matters. The hat has two colors. The truth has many sides. Only those who can accept this wisdom can walk the crossroads without being lost.